Calmness of our mind is a true virtue to achieve!
We have infinite thoughts wandering inside us every moment which sometimes cause turbulence affecting our efficiencies!
One way to calm down one's own thoughts is to consiously observe them and try to figure out the cause-effect relationships which are related to those thoughts, that way one can learn the art of mastering his thoughts and also improve his ability of self-control :)
None of us are good at everything in our lives, but each day gives us millions of opportunities to get better and elegant :)
We can either choose to ignore those opportunities and move ahead without improving ourselves and pass on the blame to our culture/society/surroundings/beliefs/priorities etc etc... Or we can consciously make an effort to pick them up to become a better personality!!!
At least with respect to one's own personality, I believe there is nothing which can't be changed given the condition you have the zeal to become better :) It's never too late to learn!!!
Few days back I happen to hear a quote from my friend which I felt is very much relevant to each one of us at some time or the other in our lives...
"Don't make the right decision, make the decision right!"
Each one of us make a decision from many of the available choices and in that process we end up spending a lot of time on weighing the choices against eachother and the task becomes more complex when the choices are almost equally best!
In such a situation I learnt that instead of working too much on making the right decision, we can spend the same time in making a decision and work on making it right :)
At the end of day what matters is your happiness, which can found in making the decision right :-)
Today I somehow happen to realize that I have moved a bit far away from all my close friends... Not sure if its because of my actions or it is natural that everyone is busy in their own lives :)
There were days when I used to spend most of my time on Messengers, Hangout dinners, late night drives around the city, nightouts at friend's place and the list goes on... Wonderful memories I had with lots of amazing people :)
Today I realize that it's been very long that I even talked to many of my 'Jigri Dosths' on phone, chat, social network etc. 😓... Everyone is busy in their own ever changing world, so am I :)
But this is the choice which I made in life and I should take responsibility of the consequences as well...
Miss you friends!!! (too big to list each of your names here 😂)
Great qoute by Swami Vivekananda :
"If you have faith in all the three hundred and thirty million of your mythological gods ... and still have no faith in yourselves, there is no salvation for you. Have faith in yourselves, and stand up to that faith and be strong; that is what we need."
